Tell me folks, what is your transition period like everytime when you fall out of love?
1 days? 1 week? 1 month? 1 year?
Frankly, there ain’t a standard. But 1 week is kinda too way too fast, don’t you think so?

See, I think things are really over with TC & bro because we have this new gal on the block who crashed in tonight. i was told by my mum on the fone this evening that TC called her and talk to her. Asking her things like “how come she does not like TC, is it because she lied, does she not treats my family well?” and stuff and so on and so for.

Prior to that TC she msged me which got me alittle inbalanced trying to counter her which in the end, I did nothing. Coming to relate things together, she seems to be in a bad patch. Hey, am I also like ahui? 同情心泛滥? Or she genuinely needs some care and concern at this point of time? I frankly do not know how to communicate to terms with her.

While we are still fumbling with TC in our thoughts and not really settled down. And on the other hand things of TC has not even been cleared, came another gal. don’t rub your eyes. YES! We have another “resident”, which I only said like 1 hi to her.

A short conversation with my bro took place.
Me: eh, you think u eating at an express sushi bar ah? 1 side haven finished start at the other side. (to me I term this as “熟食面恋爱” – quick & instant.)
Bro: that 1 no more liao.
Me: then pack her stuff and send them back. Atrocious leh you.

I told mum, 一包都还没解决掉，又来了多一包。他当这里是什么地方? He says this is tampines chalet. Can vomit blood rite? Sometime I really do not know what’s processing in his mind. One hand he was crying silly when TC is leaving, the other hand he is turning ard way too fast. Next TC even told my mum that she was told a new gal was coming over today, this was also how we knew we would be expecting new face today.. sigh this is too complex.

Frankly I am washing my hands off. I think I’ve set bad examples to him that his following suit. My 4 yrs old ex-bf used to crash in over the weekends while we were dating and I think this seems to have injected into his puny brains that its alrite to let his date crash in. I mean I think its okie to do so occasionally and not like frequently. And most imptly is you don’t crash in like within the 1st few days or few weeks of dating rite? Errmm not even when the excuse is “miss tour guide is flying off for work tomorrow and our home in tampines is closer to the airport then her place in jurong.” Excuse me, prior to seeing mr. tampines you don’t have issues with going to work, so what makes it after you start seeing him? No excuses… wait. I am washing my hands off..

This post is very inorganised I know, because the tv is on with 桃色蛋白质 and I am juggling btw tv and the pc. Also I am not in the right organized thoughts to pen this down. This is all I need to record.

But before I end, TC’s last note:
“Hi Miss Yeong, I am Jenny here. I and your bro be steady coming to 2 yrs soon. Nw your mum did not approval us, to be together. Is yr mum did not approval us to be together early, I will not hurt myself so deep and so sad. Do you noe nw I everyday crying and I no appetite to eat any food for 4 days. All the while I treat you and mum very well, why you all treat me like this. I really don understand is it because our age tat why yr mum nt happy. I ready very sad n very upset. I long time never talk to you, in my heart I always treat you as my sister. Now I ready very sad and upset.”

Earlier TC also told my mum she has been coughing blood and was warded to the hospital for a day.

I am sad to a certain extend to hear such a things but this is really an issues with her. she has never been a regular healthy person who knows how to take care of herself on a normal day, not surprised if she is in worse shape now.

Anyway I am recording this down so that it serves as memories. Good and bad ones. Let’s see what’s in store moving on.
Nite folks.